Thursday, October 2, 2008

Need some input.

Here's the scenario:

You have just given birth. You are lying in your hospital bed exhausted from multiple hours of labor and delivery, not to mention 9 months of pregnancy, and you and your husband are finally enjoying the smell, warmth and sight of your brand new baby in your arms. The healthy next step for you would be to feed your child and get some rest. But wait...there are crowds of people waiting for you to call, email or let them in the room. Everyone wants to wish you well and see the newest member of the family. What do you do? Are you excited about the guests, able to go about your business whether you have visitors or not, or are you overwhelmed with the responsibility to entertain and greet each one of your well-intentioned visitors? This scenario continues as you finally are able to leave the hospital and return to your safe haven-home. The phone rings, the doorbell chimes and people are lined up with food and gifts celebrating this new life. Are you thankful but exhausted and wish everyone would just leave you alone...or are you dressed and ready to party? I have my own opinions and many stories from my 3 past experiences, but I would like to hear what your personal experience has been and what your preference is in this matter. Perhaps you have not personally given birth but have witnessed a love one doing so, please feel free share your perspective.